Needs and Wants

Needs and Wants

Men think we know what women want and women think they know what men want. We both have these pre conceived notions on what the opposite sex needs to be happy. We both think we know the things to do that will keep our significant others happy and content. Some of us even think you can pretty much run the same script on woman after woman and male after male. Some of you are right because a lot of people are very simple minded and you can pretty much manipulate most people if you can read them. Then it’s other people who rather not manipulate you at all and be honest and upfront with each individual they come across. So if there are basic rules that you can do with different people, are there some things that is pretty consistent across the board as far as what each sex wants? YES! Now I’m going to give you all some game. The differences between man and woman are simple. Women move off wants, while Men move off need. If you don’t understand this concept, you will never truly be able to keep a person you’re in a committed relationship happy. Its things across the board that damn near every man needs and every woman wants.

Women have very simple and complex wants, but these wants are absolutely essential to keeping her happy. What does a woman want you may ask? Just that! A woman wants to be wanted! You think women put make up on, buy all these damn clothes, bags, accessories, big ass glasses to just look good for her? Please! Women insecure as hell and no matter what she wearing she will always see her flaws and imperfections no matter what she says. All it takes to make your girl day after she got her hair done is a simple “damn baby you looking beautiful with that style”.  Women love the feeling of being wanted and lusted after. They love the feeling of walking into a room and knowing every guy is looking at them. They love the feeling of being somewhere and knowing a guy can’t take their eyes off of her. Now don’t confuse this with a woman wanting to give that same attention back to every guy, but no matter what she says about dudes being thirsty or whatever other adjective she wants to use? She loves and craves that attention! Women get an emotional boost from the feeling of being wanted by men. Does this make her an attention seeking chick? No it just makes her a woman! So as her man, it is your  job to also make her feel as wanted and appreciated as possible because you better believe every time she walks out of the door there is another dude giving her that feeling. It doesn’t even matter if that feeling is genuine or not, it’s the feeling a woman crave. A woman will feel a since of attachment to a man who she feels love and want her. A woman can know you love her but if she doesn’t feel wanted? She will wonder. You have to and I know this is hard, make your woman feel like new p*ssy everyday of her life. Women don’t need to feel needed just wanted. She just needs to feel chosen in comparison to the next woman because most women are selfish and very competitive.  You have to make that woman feel more wanted than any other walking species on the face of planet earth because her feeling wanted will make her feel you are needed.   

Which brings me on to us as men and ladies what your man need?  Just that! He needs to be needed! The problem with 2014 females is too many damn Beyonce songs of being independent. Being independent is great and awesome for a woman. It’s great she can take care of herself and she can do for herself. I’m sure every man loves a woman who can hold down the Fort if need be, BUT we don’t care to hear about your independence. No man wants to hear that “ N*gga leave I don’t need your ass” sh*t. Why? Because as a man that’s one of the most disrespectful things you can say to us. If you don’t need us just leave us! Men like the feeling of being needed by his woman. We like the feeling of knowing our woman will put us over the next person because she feels she needs us. Men for the most part don’t necessarily care as much about the feeling of being wanted as you do needed. Why? Because we kind of egotistical creatures that feel all these chicks want us even if she don’t even know you exist. We stupid like that, but we don’t feel every woman needs us. A smart woman will never demean a man she loves to make him feel less needed because she understands the way a man minds work. See if a woman is NEEDED by her man? Then he is probably a bum who can’t do anything for himself without her. Now if a man is NEEDED by his woman? It means she could probably do things without you but she would rather do and share everything with you!  Our needs differ as well and sometimes what we need as a man might come across as a want to you but trust and believe that may be a very important need. See a man with a good woman knows she doesn’t need us, but we want her to never tell us she doesn’t need us. The same as a woman may know a man wants her, but she also want HER MAN to TELL her at times he wants her!

See we as men don’t know how to let our women know they are wanted because we feel we look lame, soft or thirsty, while women don’t know how to make their man feel needed because they feel it will look like they dependant or clingy. There is not a problem with making a person you love feel wanted and needed. We as men love the feel of new p*ssy right? Well women get the new p*ssy feeling from new compliments.  Just like if we aren’t sexually fulfilled we will look for new p*ssy, if they aren’t emotionally fulfilled they will look for new compliments. Trust and believe nobody wants or need anybody else offering new box or compliments to the person they love.