Males vs Men

Males and Niggas Vs Men

"Men aint shit! They all the same!". This is a statement that most females have said... o wait, "Niggas aint shit! They all the same!". Now that i covered even my ghetto mami's, i can say these are things ALL females have said. I can understand why women would make this statement and honestly, i partially agree. Niggas? aint shit! Most males? Aint shit! BUT MEN? are thee shit! See the question alot of females fail to ask themselves is, " why i keep getting these shitty ass dudes?". The answer? Its yo ass! Why is there alot of females that are totally happy and have VERY good men? Because they have MEN! There is a big difference between men and males. Every male with a penis aint a men! You women have to realize the difference before you ever find you a good man, until you know the differences between the 2, you will always get cheated on, beat on, disrespected, used and dog'd and your the blame. Yes YOU are the blame! Its not that nigga or males fault. They tell you exactly who they are from the get go, but that good dick from the back or that nice car cloud yo damn judgement. Lucky for you ladies, im going to explain the difference between the 2. Im also going to give you the game on what to look for if you want a relationship.

A nigga and a male is completely different just like a whorebag and a woman are completely different. When women see your friends come over she try to cook or be a hostess. She want your friends to say "damn bro u got it good! I need to get me one of them.". A whorebag on the other hand, she want to sit up under ya ass and giggle and laugh with ya because she want your friends to say "damn she cool... i bet i can fuck his bitch if i wanted too!". Males and Men aint much different. Males think that your friends is his friends. He think that your more like a stepping stone rather than the mountain. The male look at you like your only as good as his  next option. You might be iight, but that bad bitch over there is better. Her ass is fatter, her face is better and he cant wait for a chance to see if her pussy is better! Until them other options give a notion that its a go, he setttling with yo ass. Now MEN on the other hand, every chick they see and meet,  they to realize if that female is a bad bitch, but they are comparing her to you. See a man understand the value in a woman. A MAN wont risk losing a woman for a whorebag so even if she has a better ass and face, he aint gone risk losing this girl that accept his flaws. See a man understand his shortcomings and he look to his better half to be whatever he is not and to also make him comfortable with those shortcomings. A man understand his money, he understand his looks, he understand his dick, he understand his attitude and he also understand his better half also do and accept him as is. He's not judging his woman on the factors she might think. He's not judging her off if her ass fat, he's judging her on if i die will this woman hold my kids down! He's judging her on can i acheive things with her! Will my mama like her? If my boys tried to fuck would she put them in they place and let me know about it. If i wasnt around will she rep me like i was there myself! As much as women look to a man for protection, MEN look at their woman for that same feel. She protects you from yourself! A man can still be a male/nigga at times just like a woman could  be a whorebag, but that woman protects that man from doing dumb shit by doing her job! In return, that man feels a obligation to make sure his woman is taken care of. He protects her, he makes her smile, he holds her, he talks to her about life because she is HIS LIFE and his BETTER HALF! A man will accept the fact his woman got a past and has flaws as well. A good man isnt going to allow his woman to walk around with those flaws without attempting to fix them and making her a better woman. To the same point, a woman is gone allow her man to fix her flaws. A woman understands the difference between being independant, and ignorant. If you want a relationship, its not about you being independant, but its about ya being codependant!

For all you women who wonder why ya keep getting bad males, its either because your getting Niggas and Males, or maybe your a whorebag and not a woman your damn self! Ima give some game to the  fellas and ladies. You want to know what a successful relationship is like? U really do? ok.............................. sorry i had to make yo sweat a little bit! haha..... but the answer is, its BORING! Its really fucking boring! Ya take ya ass to work, ya save up ya money, ya follow ya plan as far as goals, take care of ya kids and in the process, ya create fun moments with each other. TOGETHER, needs to be ya fun! When ya around each other, ya need to enjoy that. I dont mean at no club together, i mean at home while ya cooking, washing clothes, washing ya cars, play the PS3 together, watch her corny reality shows, watch the NFL game with him baby and if it gets boring to u, give him a blowjob! Ya interaction with each other is the fun! Every now and then, fellas take ya girl on a trip! Buy her something nice and make her feel important. Every now then ladies, come home turn the lights off and strip for your man, give him a pedicure or something.  Other times, let your girl go have her fun with the girls and ladies let that men go to the strip club or something to see another chick or something. Thats how you keep your relationship strong! IF your lady aint complying, get rid of that whorebag. If your man aint complying, then you just learned the difference between a male and man!